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Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

2015 United States

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

How did you do the abortion?

My experience was like woahh I am a African American young lady who slept with some who does not have a job nor does he have a diploma. When I decided abortion was the only choice, I had to come up with $400+ because the clinic near me did not take my moms insurance and I did not want her to know. Even with support I felt so alone. I worked on weekends and stayed on top of my AP classes in order to afford my abortion. Imagine receiving xmas money that you had to save to get a abortion? Sucks a**. I am not a selfish person but to me in Gods eyes what I did was selfish and I cannot live that down but I always wish and pray he will forgive me. During the abortion it was so painful I wanted to cry and I bled for 3 weeks none stop and I actually heard the baby fetus go *dump* in the toilet. And I just thought "what if that was me with my mom" or "what if that could of been my successful unborn child"? But overall I had to think reasonable and think, I will not put my baby in an awkward situation where he/she couldn't ask for something for christmas mommy couldn't get. So whether you got prego by accident or by force through rape, incest, etc. SPEAK UP! IT IS YOUR BODY! Do not let the father or anybody else tell you what is wrong, if you're not ready then YOU ARE NOT READY! NOT THEM! Live for you, but next time be careful. I'm still learning and hopefully one day when I am ready my children will know about the decision I made in my bathroom that day.

What was your situation at this time?

A Scholar student with a full ride to college and with one parent with two jobs(mom) and another unemployed diabetic who goes blind in one eye every now and then(dad). My choices had pushed me to not go through with this pregnancy.

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A lot people who were close to me were relieved that I picked the right choice as a young lady because of college. But my parents and family will never know about my abortion. I am pretty sure they would be disappointed to know that I decided to have unprotected sex and at 17 about to be 18 in two months and graduate 6 months later trying to be someones mother. But my real friends were supportive and one was so supportive she even saw me as a fit mom but I knew the time was NEVER RIGHT AND THE DECISION WAS NO...

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What is your religion?

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Emilamontreal

J'ai avorté suite à ma grossesse arrêtée à 8 semaines

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Any Weather

Merci à toutes les femmes qui ont lutter pour le droit d'avorter! Merci à…

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Paulina Macias

Yo también las tomé

Megan W.

I had an abortion. There has been no complications so far, but don't have a…

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Casey

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Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Lulu de Carton

Elegí por el bien de ambos.

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Mireya Mireya

Y no siento culpa, dolor o pena se que aún sigue siendo tabú en México por la…

Mónica

Aborté por motivos de edad (demasiado joven)y económicos (era estudiante y no…