However you feel after your abortion is valid. Many people feel relief, while others may struggle. Some may feel guilty about not feeling guilty. Some may wonder about the “what ifs.” Some may regret the situations that led to their abortions. Some may feel they didn’t have control or made decisions too fast. Restrictive legal settings, social stigma, and hormone changes can make these thoughts feel stronger.
Naming your feelings and processing them can make it easier to deal with. Doing some of the following may help:
- Write down what you feel to make sense of it.
- Talk to someone you trust about your experience.
- Get support from a mental health care provider.
- Contact an abortion support hotline; reach out to us and we may be able to provide you with information on local options.
Support resources for before, during, and after your abortion (available in some languages only):



