Nik

Share your story

2012 Canada

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I never second-guessed my decision, and I still know it was the best choice for me by far.

How did you do the abortion?

I had a surgical abortion in 2012 and 2014, both times in Toronto, Canada. Both times I experienced only a small amount of pain during the procedure. The staff at each clinic were incredibly professional and kind. It was completely free both times, and after the clinic I went to for my second abortion offered me an IUD for free as well, which I have been very satisfied with so far. Both times I was accompanied by my boyfriend, who was incredibly sweet and supportive, and I was able to go right to my bed and rest until I felt better. I experienced light bleeding and relatively painful cramping for a few days, though nothing too severe. My experiences with abortion have been overwhelmingly positive. I feel so privileged to live in a country where my right to an abortion is secure. Furthermore, I live in a part of Canada where abortion is easily accessible. Canadian women in many provinces and most rural areas do not have access to local abortion services, and must travel to have one. It is unacceptable that women have unequal access in Canada; travelling far for an abortion costs women money, time, and discretion, in that teenagers or women in controlling relationships who must hide their abortions may not be able to travel without arousing suspicion. This is the problem that many Canadian women have in accessing abortion, and the situation is obviously far graver elsewhere in the world, and I am so grateful for the services Women on Web provide to those women. It is so important that we share our stories of abortion. This medical procedure is ubiquitous, necessary, and a basic human right, and it is so important that all women around the world are easily able to access it. We must share our stories to destigmatize abortion, so thank you for providing me the platform to share it.

What was your situation at this time?

ඔබේ ගබ්සාවට අනෙක් අය ප්‍රතිචාර දැක්වූයේ කෙසේද?

The people I told were all incredibly supportive both times that I had an abortion. I feel so lucky to be surrounded by people who are pro-choice and non-judgemental.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Lora Fleming

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions…

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

mimi

mi aborto. siempre te voy a recordar pequeña semillita

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Stephanie

at just 19 years old.

Na

Pois tenho direito de escolher o que é melhor pra mim! O importante é não se…

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Cristina Lima

Fiz um aborto.

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

laura micaela

Yoo aborte fue complicado porque pense q no iva a conseguir las medicinas, pero…