Victoria

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2008

Jakie uczucia ci towarzyszyły?

I was relieved and happy to find everything had worked. But I did and do still feel guilty. I think it's a natural reaction. As women we are programmed to want children, so I did feel that it was a part of me and something I should be caring for. But I did the right thing.

Jaką metodą wykonałaś aborcję?

Well, it worked. Not without a lot of pain and anxiety beforehand though. The biggest worry was waiting for the medicines to arrive, but I was well supported by my friends and the women on web service so my experience was as good as can be.

W jakiej byłaś wtedy sytuacji?

I was travelling on the other side of the world. I had no money, no boyfriend, no stability whatsoever. I felt guilty about having an abortion, but I would have felt more guilty if I had brought a child into the world and not been able to give it a comfortable upbringing. I did consider adoption, but I ruled it out because I didn't want to put my family through the anguish (I think my Mum would have had a very strong opposition to her grandchild being given up for adoption). Although I could have stayed in Chile to complete an adoption, I was living with a family and wasn't about to impose on them in such a way.

Czy nielegalność twojej aborcji wpłynęła na twoje uczucia?

I suppose it did because it meant that I actually questioned my decision because of its illegality, because the opposing argument was to be heard everywhere due to Chile's Catholic culture. If I had been in England, I wouldn't have been exposed to opposing opinions so I wouldn't have even considered them. I was also working for a women's rights organisation at the time so that meant I had access to all the information and statistics about Chile's abortion laws. It's one of only 3 countries in the world (together with Nicaragua and Guatemala) where there is no option for abortion, even if the woman is raped, her health is at risk or if the baby will not survive outside of the womb. Now, more than ever, I support a woman's right to decide for herself and it truly disgusts me that a government could impose a law that could change people's lives so greatly. While I was pregnant, I used to see girls far younger than me pushing 3 babies around and I knew how lucky I was to be able to make the choice to at least get on a plane and go to a country where it was legal. Even if I couldn't, I was from the rich part of Chilean society and though ilegal, rich women can find abortions. It's the inequality and lack of education that sets these girls apart so that some don't even know how to prevent pregnancy. That's truly shocking, but what's more shocking is that a lot of educated and open minded people won't accept that as a reason, preferring to think the girls are just stupid.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

Everyone I confided in was extremely supportive. I will admit though, that I didn't tell people who I didn't think would support me for fear of making the lives of those around me difficult.

Czy masz dzieci?

Jakiego jesteś wyznania?

Ididit

Miałam aborcję wykonaną farmakologicznymi środkami otrzymanymi od Fundacji…

noname

Miałam aborcję.

Jess

*No podía ser* 11sem

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Aborté a mis 18, a unos cuantos meses de mi graduación de preparatoria.
Me…

CJ Koivuniemi

I had an abortion. I was twenty years old and living in Ireland, a country…

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Constanza Arely

El ser madre debe ser una decisión, una de las mejores experiencias que vive…

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

R. P.

Força, meninas, que tudo se ajeita!

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Macarena

Yo aborte , con oxapros en Buenos Aires tengo 24 años

Paola XD

Yo aborté en Chile, donde es ilegal. Tengo 29 años. Lo hice con medicamentos, a…

Daria

Mam 17 lat i jestem z moim chłopakiem od lutego. Aborcji dokonałam z wczoraj na…

Вика а

I had an abortion я сделала аборт и не жалею. это бил правильный выбор. Я…

Catalina

El Misotrol salvó mi vida

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Ale

Muy difícil decisión