Bobbie

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The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right to bring a child into nothing with no future.

1983 Kanada

Jakie uczucia ci towarzyszyły?

I often think about those early pregnancies and I know that there was no way I would have been able to do everything to keep those children safe and fed and give them an opportunity to have a bright future. Even after waiting until I finished college it was a struggle to raise my baby girl. But at least we had a chance. I am so great full tohave a choice ! Now we need to help the next generation have a choice AND not feel as dirty and bad as I felt as a 13 year old girl handing out Halloween candy to beautiful little children as I soaked up the blood from the choice that was made for me. I wish that all girls knew there bodies belong to themselves!

Jaką metodą wykonałaś aborcję?

The first time I was 13 years old. I had been sexually abused since I was a small child I was never taught that I a right to decide what was done to my body. My family secrets were generations deep. I didn't choose to have an abortion I let myself float along and it became another thing that was done TO me. When I was 18 I had a couple of years of counselling and having imancipated myself from my family at 15 I was shouting out those dark secrets and learning my body was not for others to use or a tool to use to prove I loved someone. When I learned I was pregnant I had almost finished high school and knew that having a child was a great and permanent decision and instead of letting myself be the victim I stood up and made a choice. My choice was to allow myself to grow up and not bring another child to grow up poor uneducated. I knew I wasn't strong enough to protect and give this child a happy safe life and I knew I wasn't strong enough to give the child up. I couldn't be the mother this baby deserved I was barely feeding myself. I loved the child in my belly enough to let it go. I loved myself enough to let myself heal and to choose.

W jakiej byłaś wtedy sytuacji?

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

As Many people have condemned as supported me. Just because I had the legal right to an abortion does not mean people accept and support people who make such a gut wrenching decision.

legalna/nielegalna

Jakiego jesteś wyznania?

Layla Sesey

I had an abortion when i was 19 yrs . I last saw my period in December till…

Carolina Posso

I had an abortion porque me sentía sola, sentía que todo el mundo se iba a…

VIcky

Yo aborte

Izabela

Mam 20 lat i zupełnie nie byłam przygotowana na ciąże.
Ja i mój chłopak…

Bruna

Se fosse legalizado, sofreria menos. Seria diferente

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

C. Ferreira

Pior dia da minha vida

P

...Lo quería pero no podía

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

J D

My now husband and I got pregnant the first time we slept together. We were…

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

I had an abortion..W słońcu ludzie wyglądają tak, jakby zasługiwali na to, aby…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Silvia García

decidi abortar porque no tengo la economía para tener un hijo y hoy en día los…