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Hoe voelde je je over de abortus?

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

How did you do the abortion?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

What was your situation at this time?

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

legaal/illegaal

What is your religion?

laura

Mi experiencia

Jora

Fiz um aborto e o momento foi muito delicado. Primeiro que fui procurar os…

Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…

Cindy Rios

Yo aborte porque no estaba en el momento adecuado para tener un hijo, mi madre…

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

Claire

My first abortion took place when I was 19 and the second, when I was 26. I…

Tamsen Reid

I had an abortion because I did not want to be pregnant. I wasn't ready to…

Ashley Engbrecht

At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing…

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Layla

No dia 28 de outubro de 2018, fazia uma semana que eu vomitava todos os dias ao…

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…