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I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a restraining order against the father 2 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got verbally abused and car stolen a month before finding out I was pregnant. After 6 years and 2 children I would think I wanted better for myself but I guess I don't but I didn't have his daughter. I wanted a girl so bad but I had an abortion. Hopefully I can find a man that doesn't abuse me and know how to be patient with me because of what he did. I had an abortion because I wanted better for my daughter even if I think I don't for myself.

2020 United States

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

How did you do the abortion?

It was unreal. I expected the pain and blood but I didn't comes to terms with what I was giving up. Until my daughter at 9 weeks and 3 days laid on my right thumb under my tattoo of my first name. The feelings when our eyes connected was terrifying. Such a dark and scary time to have to flush down the daughter I always wanted down the toilet. I didn't expect to see the fetus but I did. I couldn't do anything but scream then quickly cover my mouth because in the next room was my 3 son's and the niece of my children's father. He still doesn't know or I haven't told him that I terminated that pregnancy.

What was your situation at this time?

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No

How did other people react to your abortion?

I only told 5 people. None which are blood related. They were supportive knowing the history of my relationship.

legal/illegal

S.M.J

Nunca imaginei que precisaria passar por isso

Madison

Una lucha constante.

squaine123

Not in this alone

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

Luna

Lo hice en un país en el cual es ilegal, por lo que tuve que acceder al mercado…

Paulette De los reyes

Decidi lo mejor para las dos

R. P.

Força, meninas, que tudo se ajeita!

Maca

Tuve suerte...

mimi

mi aborto. siempre te voy a recordar pequeña semillita

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

andrea ka

Yo aborte

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Van Nessa

I had an abortion.

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

dh

Ik heb een abortus gehad