Jane

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I had 2 abortions

1989 Wielka Brytania

Jakie uczucia ci towarzyszyły?

The first abortion I was very sure it was the right thing to do and felt very relieved afterwards. However psychologically it affected me a lot. I felt dirty and cheap. I did not want to have a relationship with a man afterwards. I was angry but could not talk to anyone about how I felt and bottled it up. I became depressed and isolated. A few years later I fell pregnant from a one night stand, one of the few times I had sex afterwards. I was very drunk. I took the morning after pill the next day but it didn’t work. I couldn’t believe I was in the same place again. I decided to have an abortion again as my family said they would not support me. It was terrible and broke my heart. However I learnt so much from my heartache. I decided to shake myself out of my depression and do something. I took responsibility for my actions. It was a horrible thing to do but it was necessary. Slowly I built my life again. I bought a flat. I met a wonderful man who loved me for who I was. We married and I had a baby at the right time. She was and is the best thing that ever happened to me. I had another beautiful daughter. We are a very happy family. I sometimes think about the babies I did not have have but a know I was too young and irresponsible and I would not have been a good mother. I have made peace with them and myself. I think abortions should be avoided at all costs but women need to be able to have the choice. No man should tell them otherwise. I want young women to know that even if you feel terrible now you can still find a lot of happiness in your future. Have faith in yourself and keep trying to find the right path for you.

Jaką metodą wykonałaś aborcję?

It was physically uncomfortable and there was a lot of blood afterwards

W jakiej byłaś wtedy sytuacji?

My first abortion I was in a very dysfunctional relationship. My boyfriend was a heroin addict although he hid it from me. I had finished with him when I found out I was pregnant. I was in second year at university and having a child at 19 was not in my plans. My second abortion was from a one night stand where I was basically raped as I was out of control drunk. I couldn’t face bringing a baby into the world like that.

Czy nielegalność twojej aborcji wpłynęła na twoje uczucia?

I was lucky to live in a country that offers legal free abortions.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I didn’t tell many people. My best friends. They were shocked and didnt really know how to react

legalna/nielegalna

Jakiego jesteś wyznania?

Mandy Amanda

Hora de recomeçar

luz

getting thru the pain.

Lisa

I always thought I cannot be pregnant, as I was diagnosed with primal…

Bruna

Se fosse legalizado, sofreria menos. Seria diferente

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Abril Violeta

cuando tenía 24 años, recién terminaba la licenciatura, estaba desempleada, en…

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Sofia Ignatius

I had abortion n all went well

Pluma93

Fue una decisión de vida