Kyky

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Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

2015 Verenigde Staten

Hoe voelde je je over de abortus?

How did you do the abortion?

My experience was like woahh I am a African American young lady who slept with some who does not have a job nor does he have a diploma. When I decided abortion was the only choice, I had to come up with $400+ because the clinic near me did not take my moms insurance and I did not want her to know. Even with support I felt so alone. I worked on weekends and stayed on top of my AP classes in order to afford my abortion. Imagine receiving xmas money that you had to save to get a abortion? Sucks a**. I am not a selfish person but to me in Gods eyes what I did was selfish and I cannot live that down but I always wish and pray he will forgive me. During the abortion it was so painful I wanted to cry and I bled for 3 weeks none stop and I actually heard the baby fetus go *dump* in the toilet. And I just thought "what if that was me with my mom" or "what if that could of been my successful unborn child"? But overall I had to think reasonable and think, I will not put my baby in an awkward situation where he/she couldn't ask for something for christmas mommy couldn't get. So whether you got prego by accident or by force through rape, incest, etc. SPEAK UP! IT IS YOUR BODY! Do not let the father or anybody else tell you what is wrong, if you're not ready then YOU ARE NOT READY! NOT THEM! Live for you, but next time be careful. I'm still learning and hopefully one day when I am ready my children will know about the decision I made in my bathroom that day.

What was your situation at this time?

A Scholar student with a full ride to college and with one parent with two jobs(mom) and another unemployed diabetic who goes blind in one eye every now and then(dad). My choices had pushed me to not go through with this pregnancy.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

A lot people who were close to me were relieved that I picked the right choice as a young lady because of college. But my parents and family will never know about my abortion. I am pretty sure they would be disappointed to know that I decided to have unprotected sex and at 17 about to be 18 in two months and graduate 6 months later trying to be someones mother. But my real friends were supportive and one was so supportive she even saw me as a fit mom but I knew the time was NEVER RIGHT AND THE DECISION WAS NO...

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What is your religion?

Esmeralda Esmralda

Por que lo hice es quizas por que nobera mi momentl consideraba era muy pequeña…

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

Liz Hoffman

Passando pra deixar meu relato, pois sei que vai ajudar muitas mulheres que…

Kendra

I had my first abortion. The experience was very difficult. I went back and…

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

andrea

A mi ángel

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

Mireya Mireya

Y no siento culpa, dolor o pena se que aún sigue siendo tabú en México por la…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Samantha

Grow Yourself, Before You Grow a Baby.

Yana

I had an abortion-it was a difficult decision...