Sonja

Condividi la tua storia

2019 Finlandia

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

How did you do the abortion?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

What was your situation at this time?

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

J D

My now husband and I got pregnant the first time we slept together. We were…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

Bárbara

Fiz o procedimento ontem e quero contar com riqueza de detalhes , por isso…

Brenda Rojas

Yo aborte, pero aunque no me siento orgullosa, tampoco me arrepiento.

Elizabeth

I had an abortion.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Fabiana

Sou advogada, tenho 40 anos 2 filhas adultas e uma vida estável e feliz.

Sempre…

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

Atenea

No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…