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And I was afraid at first...

2019 Corea del Sud

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

How did you do the abortion?

It was hard. It was really really hard. Emotionally hard and physically hard. But I knew that from the second I got pregnant, this was what I had to do. I believe an abortion can be done nobly, it takes a lot of courage and strength for women who have children and women who confront themselves with abortion, however I am not trying to equate them. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but within time and choice. I have never held so highly, that right, before this experience.

What was your situation at this time?

I am simply not ready. My partner simply is not ready. We were foolish to have not been using contraceptives. And our foolishness did end the beginning of something that could have become a someone. Perhaps this is not the case for others, but this was how I felt and I just want to be honest about it. The thought heaved in my chest, making it hard to breathe sometimes. But I know deeply, and truly, I made the right decision.

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

It made me feel stuck at most. Because back home, I could have gotten this done quickly... no shame involved... no second thoughts .... no need for reflection or further investigation of what it means to have an abortion. So I would have evaded this doubt or this thing I had considered dark. However I'm grateful for this waiting period, I confronted myself, my fears, my dreams, the reality of this position. Being in Seoul was difficult though. I read online that in certain clinics doctors were understanding to women who chose abortion, nonetheless I was still nervous to see them. When my partner and I went to get an ultrasound, we just pretended that we were going have the baby. I was afraid of the unlikely event that we would be reported, but mostly I was afraid of the doctor's judgement on me. I knew it was rooted in my head, looking back, I was the only one judging myself.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I didn't tell anybody. Especially my father. I felt like telling my dad was the last thing I would do in the choices I had, and they were very limited. I know that he would have been supportive, irrational and maybe mad at first. Yet the idea of telling him gave me feelings of shame and humiliation, I still don't understand why. However my boyfriend was there with me and I told my best friend, she's a nurse. And there care for me was everything.

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What is your religion?

P. C.

Fiz um aborto e senti vergonha de Deus, mas fiquei aliviada.

Milva

Gdy okazało się, że jestem w ciąży najpierw się ucieszyliśmy z mężem. Będzie…

laura

Mi experiencia

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Adhi

Saya masih duduk di kelas 3 SMA saat melakukan aborsi. Saya sudah pacaran…

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

YoungWoman NotReadyNow SecretsAreComplicating

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Fernanda

Escrevo esse depoimento por intermédio do meu parceiro e por mim, que passamos…

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Javi

La historia, tal cual, detrás mi aborto

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…

Mary Adler

Saya hamil 7minggu. Saya seorang muslim dan pacar saya seorang yang menganut…