Zoe

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I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My friends were very supportive. I am left angry with society that forces women to feel shame, pain, and guilt, forces them into secrecy. How dare they torture women in such a way.

2014 Britania Raya

Yang dirasakan tentang aborsi

I wish there were a few more positive emotions to choose from. I feel mostly that I was forced to feel a certain way by internalised abortion stigma, an this leaves me so angry. After a little time I am was able to rid myself completely of all the negative, self blame feelings. I am now very open about my abortion, in that I would not lie about it or hide it were it to arise in a conversation in some way. Of course, sometimes, even with some friends, there is fear on how they will react, and annoyance that maybe, probably, internally they do judge you a little.

How did you do the abortion?

It was quick. I had to go to the hospital to get the pill that induces menstruation. I had to be there until the foetus came out and the nurse checked it. I understand that it is to make sure everything went well, but I was a horrible experience to go to the hospital and stay there in the cold room, bleeding incredibly, and then get home again weakened. I want abortion pills to be legally available for use at home. Give women some credit!

What was your situation at this time?

I just could not.

Apakah ilegalitas aborsi Anda memengaruhi perasaan Anda?

It is only legal in my country until the 12th week, which I think is too short. The stigma is so strong that it forced me into secrecy, and only now that I am a little older (I was 20 at the time) I have absolutely no weird thoughts and am completely at peace with my experience. Well, not at peace, because I am left with this anger I described before. Stigmatisation is on the rise again, where right wing extremist control most media and propagate a message that equals abortion with murder, genocide and presents women as unreflected, one dimensional infants, mentally too limited to think about their actions. How dare they.

Bagaimana orang lain bereaksi terhadap aborsi Anda?

I only told one friend and my partner at the time, I was too ashamed to tell my family or close friends. This need to lie and isolation, disgusts me, why does it have to be this way? I only told most of them, my sister, and all close friends and new partner about it a year later. I was met with so much love and admiration for my strenght. I wish I had told them as soon as I knew I was pregnant, it would have helped me. But the fear to be judged was too deeply hammered into me.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

Annabelle Carton

j´ai eu un avortement

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Anna

Nigdy nie sądziłam, że to powiem ale tak, miałam aborcję.
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Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

Eveline BANGOURA

Bonjour je partage avec vous mon expérience aujourd'hui jeune fille de 18ans…

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Barbara

estou entre os 10% a 15% de falha do dia d

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

CINTIA

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento de ello.

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Serena

I had an abortion

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida