Layla Sesey

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I had an abortion when i was 19 yrs . I last saw my period in December till January but i thought they will be late period.. i didn't think i could be pregnant. By that time me n my boyfriend were having complications i didn't tell him. So i decided to get a home pregnancy test, found out i was really pregnant. That was a shock, but i thought maybe i didn't do the tests well... the same day.. i went to see a doctor. He had done the test, ask some few questions. The test were positive.. that's when i reaslised it is it.."I AM REALLY PREGNANT " called ma boyfriend n told him.... he said i will hqve to keep the baby, but i couldn't keep it... not because i want to. But the situation at home was bad... that gave me alot of stress evryday.. i didn't tell ma sister or anyone beside him.... Days went by, i sat down done some self introspection.... and thought about my future how m i gonna take care of this baby, m not working neither his father... so i decided to do what's best for me. My future, my parent's reputation . I had to sacrifice, take away an innocent blood.. not because i wanted to, but i had to😔💔... even today m still living with that Quilt... m trying to forgive ma self but i can't... wats more painful is dat i didn't tell ma boyfriend dat i had an abortion... because he threatened to tell ma parents if i do so.... so i ende up telling my cousin about my situation, she olny said do wats best for future..

2019 South Africa

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I feel like i disappointed my self, the family even though they don't know.. i feel Quilty for taking an innocent blood... m also angry at my boyfriend for being irresponsible so as me

How did you do the abortion?

It was tough because i was all alone to experience such thing all by my self...i had never seen so much blood it was all a shock... but i had to be strong..I experienced alot

What was your situation at this time?

Family's reputation

Het die onwettigheid van u aborsie u gevoelens beïnvloed?

Yes

Hoe het ander mense op u aborsie gereageer?

They didn't judge me at all... just stood by me, and supported me in every decision i take

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

KiciaKamcia

Nie wahajcie sie, jezeli czujecie ze musicie.. zrobcie to

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

Jezzi

Yo aborte con cinco semanas de gestación.... En el mi corazón siempre vivirás.

Jos

Era lo mejor

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

aileen

I have had two abortions

Zuzanna

Chciałabym opisać moją historię, która zakończyła się dokładnie trzy dni temu.

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Chelsea

I had a painful abortion

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

Rachel

I had an abortion. And I would do it again, if I was me at that time back then…

elizabet campos

aborte hace 3 semanas y tenia un embarazo de 3 semanas nose aun si fue la…

Gemma

The best decision for me.

A .

16 semanas de terror

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…