Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

How did you do the abortion?

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

Benze ntoni abanye abantu xa ukhupha isisu?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Sand

Grosse angoisse au moment de prendre le misoprostol... Mais finalement

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Sarah

Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Milva

Gdy okazało się, że jestem w ciąży najpierw się ucieszyliśmy z mężem. Będzie…

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Pam Map

Yo lo hice no me arrepiento para nada y agradezco a este sitio por haberme…

Maria

Eu havia acabado de sair de um relacionamento quase passional. Tive uma recaída…

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

kelli

I had an abortion five weeks ago, i feel normal and have done from that evening…

Jennifer

Mi cuerpo, mi decisión

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Lucille 2

I had an abortion. I got pregnant from a brief relationship and very…

Emma

I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…