Maree

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It was sad but necessary

2006 Australia

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I cried for months on end. To this day, I feel sad and at the time I felt terrible religious guilt. It was a silly contraceptive error and if I'd never been pregnant, I would have been happy not to ever get pregnant. It's good now though, to write about my abortion without judgement. Before the abortion I thought "I could never do that". But, Even though I hated doing it, I'm eternally greatful abortion was safe, legal and affordable. I would have brought an unwanted child into a life of poverty. It would have been an only child as well. I grew up on a bad family and the last thing I wanted to do was bring someone else up on a bad situation. The whole experience really woke me up - I could never again judge others for making mistakes or getting into trouble - and no matter what decision a woman makes I could never ever judge her. My one suggestion to others would be: don't freak out like I did - get the counselling if you want it before you go ahead with the abortion.

How did you do the abortion?

We were young, old, fat, thin, rough, posh, alone or with sad looking partners - all of us were on a compassionately managed conveyor belt through the clinic. It was efficient and sad. I wish now I'd booked in for the counselling they offered me but inward in such a blind panic that I just wanted it over with.

What was your situation at this time?

I was so trapped - no family support, 3 month old relationship, contract at horrible employer about to end, too old really to have a 1st child, and no house of my own. And the father did not want it. It was a terrible time.

Ngaba ukungabikho mthethweni kokuqhomfa kwakho kuchaphazele iimvakalelo zakho?

No.

Benze ntoni abanye abantu xa ukhupha isisu?

My partner with relief - he never wanted it; Some friends were great, they were kind and understanding; Other people judged me - friendships ended.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…

Ma N

Y fue un proceso duro física y emocionalmente.

Ana Vargas

Mi aborto lo hice a los 14años hoy tengo una hija de 23 años y un hijo de 17…

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Sadie

I had been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we are in our early 30s now. 

My…

P

...Lo quería pero no podía

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Alma en busca de libertad

MI DECISIÓN, MI CUERPO, JUSTICIA PARA LAS MUJERES.

ana maria Duque

I had an abortion but this wasn't easy I was very afraid, but i never regret…

Elizabeth

I had an abortion.