The best decision for me.
2015 United Kingdom
What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?
I am thankful to live in a country where I can exercise rights & choice over my body. I was in a position where I could not only decide to have an abortion, but it was actually accessible to me too.
How did you do the abortion?
Horrendous - my partner and I have been together since June 2014. I had been using The Copper IUD initially, however, it caused me numerous problems so I removed it. I decided to start using Natural Family Planning, for two reasons: to prevent pregnancy (we were both STI tested) and; to track my cycle (I was being investigated for Endometriosis). However, over a year in, I miss calculated and I ended up getting pregnant. My partner commented on my period being late, so a couple of days later I tested. It was positive. I was pregnant. I went to work. Overwhelmed. Not believing it. I took another test at lunch time. Still positive. Still pregnant. I went to the doctor, I tested again. Still positive. Still pregnant. I booked a termination there and then. I went home and told my partner. "I'm pregnant. I've booked an appointment at the clinic". The scan confirmed I was 4 weeks pregnant. I booked a medical for a week later. I went in for the first tablet and two days later for the second set. "It'll be like a heavy period" they said, "go home and rest they said." I went home. I rested. 36 hours later I was fitting on the floor, diarrhea, vomitting, pain, bleeding. An ambulance was called and I was taken into accident and emergency. I was given gas & air, codeine, diclofenac, morphine and a paracetamol & fluid drip. I was screaming in pain. Left on a gynae ward with (visibly) pregnant women - who assumed I was having a miscarriage - I had to suffer in pain. Scared, lonely and like I was to blame. The termination hadn't worked, and I had to wait for 3 days nil by mouth waiting for a D&C. I was eventually taken into surgery and the nightmare was neasr to ending. I woke up from my surgery, feeling lighter. Both physically & emotionally. I was fucking elated. I wanted to go home that night, be away from the judgement I felt and be in my own bed. I do not regret my abortion. Having my abortion was the absolute best decision for me. My partner. And the foteus. There is no way we are in a position to continue a pregnancy. I in no way regret my abortion, I regret the unfortunate circumstances in which it happened though.
What was your situation at this time?
Benze ntoni abanye abantu xa ukhupha isisu?
What is your religion?
La experiencia que me cambio.
Perdón a mis angelitos!
I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.
Yo acompañe a mi hermana quien pasó por este proceso, siempre fui una persona…
Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.
Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…
Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga
Yo decidí por su libertad.
I felt it was accapted to have an abortion
Yo aborté, y no me arrepiento.
Momento de confusão e angústia em minha vida. Mais após muita reflexão vi que…
y te lo cuento
Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…
I can now carry on with life.
Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.
Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA