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What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

How did you do the abortion?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

What was your situation at this time?

Başkaları sizin kürtajınıza nasıl tepki verdi?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

lega/illegal

What is your religion?

Dália

Eu li uns 100 depoimentos que me ajudaram muito ,então decidi escrever para…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Key

I was too careless after meeting a guy when I was in a vulnerable period and…

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

Mariana

con siete semanas, nunca te olvidaré.

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

Lola

mifepristona + misoprostol

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…

Laura Helena

Olá meninas , me chamo Laura , tenho 21 anos ,uma filha linda de 2 aninhos e…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

F. B

Vivi 2 meses em um pesadelo

Ana Lu

e vida nova pela frente...

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

CJ Koivuniemi

I had an abortion. I was twenty years old and living in Ireland, a country…