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I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a restraining order against the father 2 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got verbally abused and car stolen a month before finding out I was pregnant. After 6 years and 2 children I would think I wanted better for myself but I guess I don't but I didn't have his daughter. I wanted a girl so bad but I had an abortion. Hopefully I can find a man that doesn't abuse me and know how to be patient with me because of what he did. I had an abortion because I wanted better for my daughter even if I think I don't for myself.

2020 United States

It was unreal. I expected the pain and blood but I didn't comes to terms with what I was giving up. Until my daughter at 9 weeks and 3 days laid on my right thumb under my tattoo of my first name. The feelings when our eyes connected was terrifying. Such a dark and scary time to have to flush down the daughter I always wanted down the toilet. I didn't expect to see the fetus but I did. I couldn't do anything but scream then quickly cover my mouth because in the next room was my 3 son's and the niece of my children's father. He still doesn't know or I haven't told him that I terminated that pregnancy.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No

How did other people react to your abortion?

I only told 5 people. None which are blood related. They were supportive knowing the history of my relationship.

squaine123

Not in this alone

Megan W.

I had an abortion. There has been no complications so far, but don't have a…

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Suzanne

I had an abortion

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Anônima

Eu sobrevivi, você também vai

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Butterfly

Bylam za granica kiedy postanowilam zrobic pierwszy test ciazowy. Okres…

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with