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What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

How did you do the abortion?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

What was your situation at this time?

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Ano ang reaksyon ng ibang tao sa iyong pagpapalaglag?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

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What is your religion?

mary cry

pior momento de minha vida

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

Deborah

I had an abortion I’m not mad about all the soul-baring on the internet, but I…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

helenka

Mój chłopak mieszka w innym kraju. Na miesiąc przed wyjazdem do niego zaczęłam…

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

YoungWoman from India

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cuando tenía 24 años, recién terminaba la licenciatura, estaba desempleada, en…

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