Sonja

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2019 Finland

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

How did you do the abortion?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

What was your situation at this time?

Ako reagovali na váš potrat iní ľudia?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

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What is your religion?

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Rosa

Yo aborte

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

alessandra

I had an abortion

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

anna dea

aku masih berumur 20thun aku mempunyai pacar usia nya di bawah ku 1 tahun aku…

Daniela

yo aborte y no me siento culpable.

ana maria Duque

I had an abortion but this wasn't easy I was very afraid, but i never regret…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

Luna

Aún grito perdón

Yasmin Lara

Bom,eu encontrei vários relatos e quis deixar o meu bom eu tenho só 17 anos e…

Priscila

Há 5 anos atrás fiz um aborto,e hoje vejo claramente que foi a melhor escolha e…

Cristina

Primeira mente, quero agradecer vcs que deixaram seus depoimentos, pois isso…