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Made me who I am today

2006 Соединенные Штаты Америки

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

How did you do the abortion?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

What was your situation at this time?

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Как другие люди отреагировали на ваш аборт?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

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What is your religion?

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Newyor7891

I had an abortion

Suzanne

I had an abortion

Paula *

Yo acompañe a mi hermana quien pasó por este proceso, siempre fui una persona…

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

Vale

Mi hijo se transformó en una estrella.
Ahora veo a los demás de otra manera.
A…

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Alice

Bom, há algumas semanas eu já vinha desconfiando de uma gravidez, embora não…

Angel

Nunca me senti tão sozinha

Robbin

I had an abortion, and i should not have to hide it. My womb is still just fine.

Serena

I had an abortion