Delia

Compartilhe a sua história

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

2007 Peru (nascido em United States)

Quais foram seus sentimentos em relação ao aborto(s)?

This is likely the most complex set of emotions I'll ever experience in my life, which is why it's possible for me to feel both confused and sure at once. More than anything, I feel bad that I don't feel bad. I am sure that I made the right decision, and that my health, both physical and mental, is better for having had an abortion. But I find I can't help but feel selfish, as the fetus I was carrying was, of course, not at fault. Perhaps this feeling is well-founded, and perhaps I am simply feeling the stigma that is levied against women who choose to have an abortion. When I think about the choice that confronted the man I was involved with - simply to walk away or to stay - I feel much more confident about my decision. Why, when a man can simply wash his hands of the situation, must a woman feel obligated to have a baby? It makes no sense. Stigmatize me, ostracize me, all I did was walk away. I'm not proud, but I'm not ashamed, either.

Como fez o aborto?

In general, my experience was very positive. The moments I actually took the pills were difficult, knowing that the act of swallowing would be a life-changing one. But after having read about everything I could expect to have happen to me, I felt almost calm, and as the process moved along, and symptoms/side effects began appearing one by one, being informed made it a lot less nerve-wracking. I did have severe cramping, and moderate to severe nausea, but didn't vomit. I was in a great amount of discomfort for about three hours. Pain relievers helped a lot, but did not completely eliminate the pain.

Como era a sua situação nessa altura?

The conception occurred without love, much like my conception. And though I have been blessed with one extremely caring parent, it weighs on me every day that I was conceived without love, and is something that I am sure has affected the person I have become. I did not want the same hardship for any child of mine. I was also in a foreign place, alone, and very much depressed. The mental health repercussions of the choice to have or not to have the child were almost crushing. In the end, the choice that proved to be the least dangerous to my mental health was abortion.

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

It made me feel ostracized, and before I found out about Women on Web, I was really nervous about the potential danger in going to an illegal clinic and having it done there by someone who I couldn't be sure was a professional.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I told one friend, who was with me when I took the medicines, and although we didn't agree about my decision, my friend was still very supportive.

lega/ilegal

Tem filhos?

Qual é a sua religião?

Ana Luiza

A ironia entre abortar e renascer.

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Estrella Triste Estrella

"Yo me salve"
Todo comenzó el 06 de junio cuando en un baño moribundo y…

Alice

This is how it went for me

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

elizabet campos

aborte hace 3 semanas y tenia un embarazo de 3 semanas nose aun si fue la…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

jaque

com dor e com culpa

Bri

I knew I was pregnant as soon as I was around two weeks. I had never been…

wiki Kosik

Korzystaj z życia..Na dziecko, przyjdzie odpowiedni czas..

Frances

Feeling like myself again

Bárbara

Fiz o procedimento ontem e quero contar com riqueza de detalhes , por isso…