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I am pro-choice

2005 Reino Unido (nascido em Poland)

Quais foram seus sentimentos em relação ao aborto(s)?

It was a hard and extremely difficult decision, and I had a lot of doubts, trying to find my way. Today I’m sure that was a right decision, and I don’t regret it, but I regret deeply that I had to loose a child. I was sad and crying for long time – as we are sad after someone loved died or left for ever, and we cannot help it. But I was right deciding that I wasn’t able to have a child at that moment.

Como fez o aborto?

I had my abortion in London, at Marie Stopes, where everyone was very professional, and supporting. My pregnancy was very early – 3,5 weeks, so I had just the pills. Normally the women have strong cramps and a lot of blood after them, but I didn’t. I was extremely stressed because of whole situation, and the night before taking pills I had cramps, and a lot of blood, and I thought it was a kind of miscarriage. So after pills nothing happened, no cramps, and almost no blood.

Como era a sua situação nessa altura?

I had a boyfriend, who told me he was infertile. We were planning to adopt children in the future. I don’t know if he really meant that, or was just lying, but obviously he wasn’t infertile. When I told him I’m pregnant, he said he wasn’t going to stay with me, and he wanted me to abort, he left and stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I was shocked and destroyed by the offensive and extremely cruel way of treating me by someone, who before pretended to love me. I went through all possibilities to see if I’m able to have this child, and I decided that I’m not strong enough on my own (I don’t have supportive family, and my economical situation was quite bad).

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I am Polish, and for last 3 years I have been living and working in UK, where the abortion is legal. It was a great stress to face the abortion situation on my own (no support from the partner or family), and if I had an additional pressure from the legal order, I would feel in a lot bigger oppression. It was a great help and relief for me – while undertaking my decision – to know that I have a choice and don’t have to have a baby, and I was lucky not to face this situation in Poland, where the abortion is still illegal.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I was quite on my own, and had only one friend, who knew and supported me, which I'm very grateful for.

lega/ilegal

Tem filhos?

Qual é a sua religião?

Maria Victoria

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Monika Koźlecka

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Jess

I had two...it was not a hard decision, and I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm a…

Petal

I had an abortion only a few months ago. I'm 30, a praticing Christian, a…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Dominika

Aborcja w samotności
Głupia byłam. Mój chłopak zawsze się kontrolował, ponoć…

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Pegah

I had an abortion and now I feel as strong as before!

inteldeath

It was the right decision, and it is my choice.

Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

Anna

Nigdy nie sądziłam, że to powiem ale tak, miałam aborcję.
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Joanna

Odzyskałam Moc:)

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

Catalina

El Misotrol salvó mi vida

Liz Price

I had an abortion

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!