Ewa Izabela

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I am pro-choice

2005 Reino Unido (nascido em Poland)

Quais foram seus sentimentos em relação ao aborto(s)?

It was a hard and extremely difficult decision, and I had a lot of doubts, trying to find my way. Today I’m sure that was a right decision, and I don’t regret it, but I regret deeply that I had to loose a child. I was sad and crying for long time – as we are sad after someone loved died or left for ever, and we cannot help it. But I was right deciding that I wasn’t able to have a child at that moment.

Como fez o aborto?

I had my abortion in London, at Marie Stopes, where everyone was very professional, and supporting. My pregnancy was very early – 3,5 weeks, so I had just the pills. Normally the women have strong cramps and a lot of blood after them, but I didn’t. I was extremely stressed because of whole situation, and the night before taking pills I had cramps, and a lot of blood, and I thought it was a kind of miscarriage. So after pills nothing happened, no cramps, and almost no blood.

Como era a sua situação nessa altura?

I had a boyfriend, who told me he was infertile. We were planning to adopt children in the future. I don’t know if he really meant that, or was just lying, but obviously he wasn’t infertile. When I told him I’m pregnant, he said he wasn’t going to stay with me, and he wanted me to abort, he left and stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I was shocked and destroyed by the offensive and extremely cruel way of treating me by someone, who before pretended to love me. I went through all possibilities to see if I’m able to have this child, and I decided that I’m not strong enough on my own (I don’t have supportive family, and my economical situation was quite bad).

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I am Polish, and for last 3 years I have been living and working in UK, where the abortion is legal. It was a great stress to face the abortion situation on my own (no support from the partner or family), and if I had an additional pressure from the legal order, I would feel in a lot bigger oppression. It was a great help and relief for me – while undertaking my decision – to know that I have a choice and don’t have to have a baby, and I was lucky not to face this situation in Poland, where the abortion is still illegal.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I was quite on my own, and had only one friend, who knew and supported me, which I'm very grateful for.

lega/ilegal

Tem filhos?

Qual é a sua religião?

Na

Pois tenho direito de escolher o que é melhor pra mim! O importante é não se…

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Petal

I had an abortion only a few months ago. I'm 30, a praticing Christian, a…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

aileen

I have had two abortions

Dani

Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going…

Anonimowa

Dwie kreski...Te dwie czerwone kreski na białym papierku były jak kubeł zimnej…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

noname

Miałam aborcję.

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

Fernanda

Escrevo esse depoimento por intermédio do meu parceiro e por mim, que passamos…

Butterfly

Bylam za granica kiedy postanowilam zrobic pierwszy test ciazowy. Okres…

Ma N

Y fue un proceso duro física y emocionalmente.

Belen

Mi experiencia con Oxaprost. 7 semanas.

Sixtine

Tout choix à sa difficulté, le tout est d'assumer.

Viridiana Aguilar

I had an abortion

VIcky

Yo aborte