Ashley Engbrecht

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At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing more terrifying than someone taking your control from you in the most viscious way possible. As a result of this incident, I became pregnant. I was so ashamed and full of fear, as I didn't want this for myself or ask for it in any way. I didn't tell anyone but my mother. I didn't tell anyone as I feared backlash from friends who were clearly against it, but I knew what was right for me, and it was not to graduate high school carrying a child of rape. I was able to receive access to misoprostol at a planned parenthood facility. Two days later I miscarried in the most painful event I've ever experienced. My mother rushed me to the hospital to receive treatment. The judgement and negativity I received from certain nurses was almost unbearable, I am glad I was doped up on morphine for most of the night. All I felt from then on was shame.. Am I monster? I am now 23 years old and I look back, healed but scarred, and see what I have accomplished, who I've become, and who I will be because I had the opportunity and choice to change my destiny. I wasn't destined to be a mother at 17. Many times after my experience I had friends go through the same thing. Only then did I share my story for the first time and realize I wasn't alone. What I did should not be shamed. I will graduate from college in May and start graduate school for Early Childhood Education in the fall.

2010 Estados Unidos

Quais foram seus sentimentos em relação ao aborto(s)?

I felt so many different feelings at once. I was confident in my decision but I've never felt anything so heart wrenching in my life. It was still I tough choice, but one I am glad I made.

Como fez o aborto?

Painful, but I believe the pain I experienced is not common. I had no complications following the process.

Como era a sua situação nessa altura?

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I have kept it very much a secret. I have only told people who I knew would be supportive, as I feared ridicule. 6 years after the abortion, I finally told my father. He was very compassionate and supportive, which surprised me with his conservative views. Many of my family and friends to this day do not know.

lega/ilegal

Qual é a sua religião?

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Lilian Godfrey

I had an abortion twice this year. One was around August, and the second today…

Ana

El día de ayer aborté

Priscilla Silva

Oi, bom é tanta coisa pra falar ... mas vamos lá! Abortei em Março dia 17

Sara

Abortar era la decisión que debía tomar...

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Nami

porque mi situación económica era pésima, al igual que la de mi pareja, ninguno…

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Luna

Aún grito perdón

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

diana

naprawde nie miałam wyjścia jestem miesiąc po,nie bolało szczerze mówiąc…

O.N.A

Wieść o ciąży była dla mnie szokiem, ale mogłam się jej spodziewać bo niestety…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...