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Jakie uczucia ci towarzyszyły?

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

Jaką metodą wykonałaś aborcję?

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

W jakiej byłaś wtedy sytuacji?

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

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Jakiego jesteś wyznania?

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Nathalia

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Zuzanna

Chciałabym opisać moją historię, która zakończyła się dokładnie trzy dni temu.

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Andreza

Quando descobri que estava grávida eu já estava com um mês de gestação. A…

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

Lucy Smith

It was never going to be easy

Eryka

Miałam aborcje, nie chce streszczać mojej historii, bo każda kobieta wie kiedy…

Vivi Lili

La vdd no creo que sea malo soy una mujer casada y tengo un precioso hijo pero…

ROCÍO

Lo logré....estoy tranquila

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

Emily

10 years ago, at age 32, I had an abortion. The pregnancy was unplanned and I…

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação

Nat

Zawsze miałam bolesne miesiączki, wiec spodziewałam się, ze będzie naprawdę…

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Barbara

MAM PRAWO DECYDOWAĆ

Rosa

Yo aborte