Bee

Deel je ervaring

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

2010 Verenigde Staten

Hoe voelde je je over de abortus?

After the abortion I felt so relieved but I felt very guilty because I didn't give my child a chance. A chance to live and experience life, for it to take it's first breath and look of this world. God sent me a blessing and I turned my back on god and committed a crime. I was stuck with the sane question what if? What if I had been brave and decided to keep it? What if I stopped thinking about myself and my future ? What If I didn't care that I was going to disappoint my family? What if I wasn't afraid of telling my parents ? What If that baby would have changed my life and have been the answer to my prayers? What if, is the question I always ask myself. But what's done is done, there's no way of going back and changing the past. I recently told my mom about my abortion. I am now 19 years old. I wept and I felt so ashamed I couldn't even look at her . The way she reacted was not what I expected. She was calm and told me I know, I had a feeling you had an abortion. She said that there was no Shame in what I have done, thousands of women do it that I am not alone. It was for the best, it was for the right reasons. She told me that she loves me and that I'm not alone.

How did you do the abortion?

I sat in a room with approximately 8 other girls . Everyone was older than me , I was 15 when I had my abortion. We sat there and some of the girls started talking about their life's and why they decided to come here and get an abortion. The staff and doctor were supportive and kind. Everything happened so fast, they injected me with something and the doctor told me to look up and count to 10 then as I approached 5 I fell asleep. Hours later I woke up confused and scared. It was over and I felt relieved but guilty.

What was your situation at this time?

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

The only people that new about the abortion was my at the time boyfriend and a couple of close friends. My boyfriend was super supportive when I told him that I was pregnant , i asked him what his thoughts were and his opinion. He told me regardless of what you decide I love you , and if you decide to keep this baby I will love it too. His words very comforting but I knew we weren't ready we were too young to be parents, we could barely take care of ourselves let alone a baby. My close friends were very supportive and they would give me a hug and tell me that everything is going to be alright .

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What is your religion?

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

Liz Hoffman

Passando pra deixar meu relato, pois sei que vai ajudar muitas mulheres que…

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

deja la vida volar

decidí escribir mi experiencia en detalle ya que en mi país el aborto es…

Embrace So

aku aborsi karena aku tidak ingin mengecewakan banyak orang. pasangan saya sama…

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Bel

Tak, miałam aborcję

Grace

12 Weeks 2 Days Medical Abortion Experience

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Rocio Rocio

14 semanas

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario

anita nyaera

I had three abortions latest being 2018.I feel guilty but I had no choice.

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.