Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan
Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.
I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.
How did you do the abortion?
I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.
main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.
Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?
One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.
What is your religion?
Muy difícil decisión
żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…
Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.
I had an abortion and never talked about it with anyone
Sou advogada, tenho 40 anos 2 filhas adultas e uma vida estável e feliz.
I had an abortion and don't regret it.
esta vez decido yo!
Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..
Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…
I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.
El orgullo de ser mujer y poder decidir.
The best decision for me.
I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…
Nie będę opisywała o tym jak to się stało, że się dowiedziałam, każdy ma na to…
I had an abortion
La experiencia de mi aborto. Realmente me asusté
Aku memutuskan untuk aborsi karena pada saat itu, aku masih menempuh S3 dan…
Won’t be named Won’t be named
I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…
¿decisión o "me hice a la idea"?