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2018 Duitsland

Hoe voelde je je over de abortus?

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

How did you do the abortion?

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

What was your situation at this time?

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

legaal/illegaal

What is your religion?

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

Cathy

Unexpected..

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Maria

Maria

Angel M

To była 3 ciąża nieplanowana i niechciana, przede wszystkim przeze mnie. Głupia…

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

M

Cześć. Mam 21 lat. Byłam w około 2- 3 tygodniu ciąży. Jestem już po aborcji…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Mireya Mireya

Y no siento culpa, dolor o pena se que aún sigue siendo tabú en México por la…

Magdalena Kozakiewicz

I had an abortion

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…