Sonja

Deel je ervaring

2019 Finland

Hoe voelde je je over de abortus?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

How did you do the abortion?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

What was your situation at this time?

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

legaal/illegaal

What is your religion?

Serena

I had an abortion

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Anônima

Eu sobrevivi, você também vai

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Abril Violeta

cuando tenía 24 años, recién terminaba la licenciatura, estaba desempleada, en…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Alice

This is how it went for me

Virginie

À 32 ans, j'ai avorté parce que ce n'était pas le bon moment.

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

elizabet campos

aborte hace 3 semanas y tenia un embarazo de 3 semanas nose aun si fue la…

Cindy Rios

Yo aborte porque no estaba en el momento adecuado para tener un hijo, mi madre…

Dominika

Historia jest dosyć banalna i podejrzewam, że nie ja jedna zaszłam w taki…

Karolina

Miałam aborcję

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

Magui

La mejor decisión

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

MS

ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN