Layla Sesey

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I had an abortion when i was 19 yrs . I last saw my period in December till January but i thought they will be late period.. i didn't think i could be pregnant. By that time me n my boyfriend were having complications i didn't tell him. So i decided to get a home pregnancy test, found out i was really pregnant. That was a shock, but i thought maybe i didn't do the tests well... the same day.. i went to see a doctor. He had done the test, ask some few questions. The test were positive.. that's when i reaslised it is it.."I AM REALLY PREGNANT " called ma boyfriend n told him.... he said i will hqve to keep the baby, but i couldn't keep it... not because i want to. But the situation at home was bad... that gave me alot of stress evryday.. i didn't tell ma sister or anyone beside him.... Days went by, i sat down done some self introspection.... and thought about my future how m i gonna take care of this baby, m not working neither his father... so i decided to do what's best for me. My future, my parent's reputation . I had to sacrifice, take away an innocent blood.. not because i wanted to, but i had to😔💔... even today m still living with that Quilt... m trying to forgive ma self but i can't... wats more painful is dat i didn't tell ma boyfriend dat i had an abortion... because he threatened to tell ma parents if i do so.... so i ende up telling my cousin about my situation, she olny said do wats best for future..

2019 South Africa

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I feel like i disappointed my self, the family even though they don't know.. i feel Quilty for taking an innocent blood... m also angry at my boyfriend for being irresponsible so as me

How did you do the abortion?

It was tough because i was all alone to experience such thing all by my self...i had never seen so much blood it was all a shock... but i had to be strong..I experienced alot

What was your situation at this time?

Family's reputation

Adakah haramnya pengguguran anda mempengaruhi perasaan anda?

Yes

Bagaimana reaksi orang lain terhadap pengguguran anda?

They didn't judge me at all... just stood by me, and supported me in every decision i take

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Julia

W momencie kiedy dowiedziałam się ze jestem w ciąży nie wiedziałam co robić.

aileen

I have had two abortions

Mariana

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Jessica

No estaba lista para ser madre, no se si algún día lo estaré.

Megan W.

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Ana

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Luna

Deu tudo certo.

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Hope

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La mujer decide

La sororidad es el arma más fuerte entre mujeres

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Karolina

Miałam aborcję.

F. B

Vivi 2 meses em um pesadelo

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

P. C.

Fiz um aborto e senti vergonha de Deus, mas fiquei aliviada.

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

BC

Depois de algum tempo lendo os depoimentos por aqui, decidi deixar também o meu.

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

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