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2019 Finland

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

How did you do the abortion?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

What was your situation at this time?

Bagaimana reaksi orang lain terhadap pengguguran anda?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Mariana C

Estava grávida de 08 semanas e não sabia!

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Lily

I had a medical abortion (the pill) with BPAS when I was just shy of 8 weeks.

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

Macabéia

Aborto 5 meses / Aborto 20 semanas

ech echhhhhh

Aborcji dokonałam całkiem niedawno, ledwo miesiąc temu. Mam 19 lat i mieszkam w…

Micaela Mica

Debo decir que no me senti ni culpable ni arrepentida en ningún momento al…

Fabiana

y te lo cuento

Natalia M

Yo aborté, y no me arrepiento.

Laura Helena

Olá meninas , me chamo Laura , tenho 21 anos ,uma filha linda de 2 aninhos e…

Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
Quando realizei meu aborto…

Candice

My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…

Maleja

Yo aborté.

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

Tlhogi Tshegofaso

I did it when I was 4 weeks. Its was tremendously painful and horrific. The…

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…