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2018 Germany

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

How did you do the abortion?

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

What was your situation at this time?

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

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What is your religion?

Bea

Enfim,tudo começou em Outubro. Tive relações sexuais com meu parceiro fixo (Meu…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Guid

Não me arrependo!

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Gabriella fikol

Zaskoczenie
Jako matka dwojga dzieci , która w swoim zyciu czekała długo na…

CJ Koivuniemi

I had an abortion. I was twenty years old and living in Ireland, a country…

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Вика а

I had an abortion я сделала аборт и не жалею. это бил правильный выбор. Я…

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…

Bel

Tak, miałam aborcję

Kamila

Miałam aborcję. I choć żyję w ponoć "cywilizowanym" kraju to aborcja jest…

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Dominika

Historia jest dosyć banalna i podejrzewam, że nie ja jedna zaszłam w taki…

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Anônima

Eu sobrevivi, você também vai

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.