Layla Sesey

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I had an abortion when i was 19 yrs . I last saw my period in December till January but i thought they will be late period.. i didn't think i could be pregnant. By that time me n my boyfriend were having complications i didn't tell him. So i decided to get a home pregnancy test, found out i was really pregnant. That was a shock, but i thought maybe i didn't do the tests well... the same day.. i went to see a doctor. He had done the test, ask some few questions. The test were positive.. that's when i reaslised it is it.."I AM REALLY PREGNANT " called ma boyfriend n told him.... he said i will hqve to keep the baby, but i couldn't keep it... not because i want to. But the situation at home was bad... that gave me alot of stress evryday.. i didn't tell ma sister or anyone beside him.... Days went by, i sat down done some self introspection.... and thought about my future how m i gonna take care of this baby, m not working neither his father... so i decided to do what's best for me. My future, my parent's reputation . I had to sacrifice, take away an innocent blood.. not because i wanted to, but i had to😔💔... even today m still living with that Quilt... m trying to forgive ma self but i can't... wats more painful is dat i didn't tell ma boyfriend dat i had an abortion... because he threatened to tell ma parents if i do so.... so i ende up telling my cousin about my situation, she olny said do wats best for future..

2019 Sudafrica

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

I feel like i disappointed my self, the family even though they don't know.. i feel Quilty for taking an innocent blood... m also angry at my boyfriend for being irresponsible so as me

How did you do the abortion?

It was tough because i was all alone to experience such thing all by my self...i had never seen so much blood it was all a shock... but i had to be strong..I experienced alot

What was your situation at this time?

Family's reputation

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

Yes

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

They didn't judge me at all... just stood by me, and supported me in every decision i take

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Jessica

No estaba lista para ser madre, no se si algún día lo estaré.

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

La mujer decide

La sororidad es el arma más fuerte entre mujeres

Luna

Deu tudo certo.

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Kojika

Jestem w stałym związku od 7lat. Mam kochającego mężczyznę i mała córeczkę.

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

deja la vida volar

decidí escribir mi experiencia en detalle ya que en mi país el aborto es…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

inteldeath

It was the right decision, and it is my choice.

PatoPato Quire

Yo decidí por su libertad.

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

E. Souza

Espero que ajude outras mulheres, pois assim como eu, no desespero, procurei…

Gadzinka

Moja aborcja przemineła tak jak miała , wziełam tabletki potem dojadałam .