Daisy

I had an abortion about seven years ago when I was 16. I was in an abusive relationship and I know that if I were to have the baby, it means that I will have to marry my abusive boyfriend. I decided to had an abortion for the sake of my own safety and the baby itself. I know I wouldn't be able to support the baby myself, and I know things are going to be worsens if I had to marry the baby daddy. Now I have a Masters degree, and a well-paying job, because I could focus on myself and fixing my issues. I will always cherish the memory I have during the pregnancy and will always love the baby in secrecy.

2013 Indonesia

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

resolved relieved as usual sad

I was sad, because I wish this wasn't the circumstance. I always wanted to be a mother, but I had to understand that motherhood wasn't easy. I felt relieved because with the abortion I am able to escape the abusive relationship.

How did you do the abortion?

with medicines by myself

It was painful, like an extremely painful period. Make sure that you have someone with you during the abortion since you lost a lot of blood.

What was your situation at this time?

rape/incest my education my age (too young or old) problems with my relationship mental health reasons

I am depressed and I couldn't even support myself

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

No, it doesn't

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I only told my ex boyfriend's mother because she understands that her son are acting abusive towards me. She was reluctant and as a devout Christian she was angry at first, however she supported me after she hear me out.

legal/illegal

illegal

What is your religion?

Christianity