Kate

Condividi la tua storia

and I'm so relieved

2016 Canada

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

Disbelief that I had such an experience but relief that the pregnancy is over. The abortion itself was fine, it was being pregnant when I did not want to be and trying to get on with my life and keep it a secret until it was over. Dealing with other people's feelings that they projected onto me was the worst part. I got an IUD a couple of months later so hopefully I will never have to endure an unintended pregnancy again. Lesson learned.

How did you do the abortion?

I live in a small city in Canada and was originally told I would have to wait nearly two months until the doctor could get me in for surgery. In the end I only had to wait one month, but it was the longest month of my life and really contributed to the relief I felt once it was all over. I was prescribed misoprostol to insert a few hours before the scheduled procedure, however no one warned me that it would cause me to start miscarrying. I was admitted to the hospital early and the nurses collected every clot of blood to check if the fetus had passed, in the end they went ahead with the procedure just to make sure it was all out. The moment I woke up from the surgery and realized it was all over was the most relieved I've ever felt in my life. My best friend didn't believe me that I didn't cry, but if I did it would have been tears of joy that the nightmare of an unwanted pregnancy had ended.

What was your situation at this time?

I have never wanted children and this experience cemented what I already knew.

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

Not really, I was just grateful that I was able to get an abortion without much hassle and that it was free, otherwise it would have made an already difficult experience even moreso.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

My boyfriend was as supportive as he knew how to be. The only other people I told were my best friend, my closest sister and my mom. They were all pretty supportive of my choice but also treated it like it was a heart-wrenching and difficult decision for me and still haven't accepted that I just don't ever want children. My mom said she will always have a little grief for the grandchild she almost had, but it wasn't about her or her feelings.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Jessica

No estaba lista para ser madre, no se si algún día lo estaré.

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

Jess

I had two...it was not a hard decision, and I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm a…

Anna K.

nie żałuję,

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Joanna

Odzyskałam Moc:)

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

Wzięłam pierwszą tabletkę, czułam…

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Sara

Postanowiłam opisać swoją historię, ponieważ historie innych kobiet bardo dużo…

Lucy

No me arrepiento

Luana Oliveira Jacob

Fiz um aborto - E me senti aliviada.Cada dia que me deito para dormir, fico…

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

Rosa

Yo aborte