I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.
Yang dirasakan tentang aborsi
How did you do the abortion?
the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.
What was your situation at this time?
Apakah ilegalitas aborsi Anda memengaruhi perasaan Anda?
well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.
Bagaimana orang lain bereaksi terhadap aborsi Anda?
once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.
What is your religion?
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Era lo mejor
Hola. Esta es mi experiencia.
Tengo 17 años actualmente, no soy virgen pero…
Most difficult choice I’ve ever made
I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…
Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.
No estaba lista para ser madre, no se si algún día lo estaré.
Elegí no ser madre
Yo aborte con oxaprost
My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…
I had an abortion
ABORTAR PARA SER "LIBRES" NUEVAMENTE
This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…
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Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.
My story - at 6 weeks and 5 days
Uma escolha difícil.