Robbin

Ceritakan Kisahmu

I had an abortion, and i should not have to hide it. My womb is still just fine.

2015

Yang dirasakan tentang aborsi

A part of me feels happy because i dont belive the child would be happy struggling. I now have no kids but when i do have kids they will be comfortable because i would have had sufficient time to work on my finances and meet someone i was equally yoked with, since me and the aborted child father and not together. I feel a bit guilty because i dont know what happened to the child soul for sure. I would like to think he or she went back to heaven, or got re-incarnated into a happy family and didnt just go to hell.

How did you do the abortion?

Abortion is illegal where i am from but if you have money you can do it. I was living with my ex and his mom. My mother told me very clearly she’s didnt care. I was in Nursing school, and people already had the wrong idea of me. My actions was being mis interpreatated. Before living with my ex i lived down stairs my mom house, she tried as much as she could to get me out. I had no internet so i use to come back sometimes 2 in the morning from sitting outside the library studying and this was seen as i was leaving a married man house so i am promiscuous. I had no oven so i use to leave the house at time at night to get warm food because that’s when it would be the cheapest, but it was seen as i am always out partying. People on my island expected me to end up alone with a child and not finish school. So knowing that in their minds i proved them right i really wanted to kill myself, despite me having a loving partner. He was himself in medical school about to graduate and i was in nursing school. A child would have put both our graduations on hold.

What was your situation at this time?

We talked about me keeping the child, and me going o school and graduating and Kim getting a job and since i was closer to graduating than him when we were stable i would work and he would go back to school. This is in a country where the minimum wage is one pound an hour. It was not feasible to support a child and put someone through medical school. And while i was pregnant i felt so sick, i was eating way more than i could afford and his mother was starting to notice,

Apakah ilegalitas aborsi Anda memengaruhi perasaan Anda?

No, i was already contemplating death.

Bagaimana orang lain bereaksi terhadap aborsi Anda?

When i tell someone i had it, its immediately i killed someone, there is death in my womb. There is no thought of if i had money to take care of the child, what kind of life would the child have, how would i feel with the responsibility. I was automatically the killer, while the dad was not even in the conversation.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

María

Mi aborto.

D.G

Aborto Simples e tranquilo com Cytotec

Contra o aborto até precisar dele

Kamila

Ożyłam

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Lu

Y aunque todos los días piense que podría haber sido, fue la mejor decisión…

Giovanna

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luna oscura

¿En serio estoy embarazada?

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Miqueyla

No me arrepiento de lo que hice. Abortar suena demasiado frío , asi que mejor…

Ivka

Moja historia jest świeża, nie mam głębokich przemyśleń czy rad dla Was, czuję…

Julia

W momencie kiedy dowiedziałam się ze jestem w ciąży nie wiedziałam co robić.

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Issabela

Doloroso pero libre

Baby

Nunca me senti tão sozinha!

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

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