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And I was afraid at first...

2019 Korea Selatan

Yang dirasakan tentang aborsi

How did you do the abortion?

It was hard. It was really really hard. Emotionally hard and physically hard. But I knew that from the second I got pregnant, this was what I had to do. I believe an abortion can be done nobly, it takes a lot of courage and strength for women who have children and women who confront themselves with abortion, however I am not trying to equate them. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but within time and choice. I have never held so highly, that right, before this experience.

What was your situation at this time?

I am simply not ready. My partner simply is not ready. We were foolish to have not been using contraceptives. And our foolishness did end the beginning of something that could have become a someone. Perhaps this is not the case for others, but this was how I felt and I just want to be honest about it. The thought heaved in my chest, making it hard to breathe sometimes. But I know deeply, and truly, I made the right decision.

Apakah ilegalitas aborsi memengaruhi perasaan Anda?

It made me feel stuck at most. Because back home, I could have gotten this done quickly... no shame involved... no second thoughts .... no need for reflection or further investigation of what it means to have an abortion. So I would have evaded this doubt or this thing I had considered dark. However I'm grateful for this waiting period, I confronted myself, my fears, my dreams, the reality of this position. Being in Seoul was difficult though. I read online that in certain clinics doctors were understanding to women who chose abortion, nonetheless I was still nervous to see them. When my partner and I went to get an ultrasound, we just pretended that we were going have the baby. I was afraid of the unlikely event that we would be reported, but mostly I was afraid of the doctor's judgement on me. I knew it was rooted in my head, looking back, I was the only one judging myself.

Bagaimana reaksi orang lain terhadap aborsi Anda?

I didn't tell anybody. Especially my father. I felt like telling my dad was the last thing I would do in the choices I had, and they were very limited. I know that he would have been supportive, irrational and maybe mad at first. Yet the idea of telling him gave me feelings of shame and humiliation, I still don't understand why. However my boyfriend was there with me and I told my best friend, she's a nurse. And there care for me was everything.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Saraith saraith

Perdoneme mi bebe, te amare siempre!

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Mabel

Mabel

Carla

Meu nome não é esse. Não posso me expor, não posso dizer demais. Fico no…

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Maree

It was sad but necessary

Jess

*No podía ser* 11sem

Pippa

I had 2 abortiona in the space of a year...

was 20 nearrly 21 i hadnt had a…

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Ale

Sin remordimientos

Chinchulina

I come from a country where abortion is legal but due to my personal…

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…