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2018 Allemagne

Quels étaient vos sentiments au sujet de faire l'avortement / s?

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

Comment avez-vous fait l'avortement?

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

Quelle était votre situation à ce moment-là?

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

légal/illégal

What is your religion?

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Felicia Ríos

Yo elegí y aborté

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

F. B

Vivi 2 meses em um pesadelo

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

M

Cześć. Mam 21 lat. Byłam w około 2- 3 tygodniu ciąży. Jestem już po aborcji…

Butterfly

Bylam za granica kiedy postanowilam zrobic pierwszy test ciazowy. Okres…

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Nathalia

Minha história começa com o sonho de cursar medicina no Brasil, o que é muito…

Vandalize

Já fiz quatro: 2004, 2005, 2009 e 2015

Jade

No me arrepiento

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

Emily

10 years ago, at age 32, I had an abortion. The pregnancy was unplanned and I…

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

Lisal M. C

It was a big decided that I made in my life. I had a complexity relationship…