Sonja

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2019 Finlande

Quels étaient vos sentiments au sujet de faire l'avortement / s?

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

Comment avez-vous fait l'avortement?

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

Quelle était votre situation à ce moment-là?

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

légal/illégal

What is your religion?

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Agnieszka

Miałam aborcję - nie żałuję

Suzanne

I made the best decision for me

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

Tanya

I was not in a stable relationship and was already raising a daughter on my own.

Luana Oliveira Jacob

Fiz um aborto - E me senti aliviada.Cada dia que me deito para dormir, fico…

Chispi

¿decisión o "me hice a la idea"?

y.enedi

yo decidi un aborto,

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Vicky

I had an abortion

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.