Emmy Smith

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It was the best decision of my life

2015 Francia

¿Cuáles fueron sus sentimientos acerca de hacer el aborto (s)?

I could easily check all those boxes. But the moment when you know that the test is going to show a plus sign and you don't want it, it is a nightmare on earth. I'm a person who doesn't like children and I am always careful. I was just so disappointed and ashamed of myself, and I still am. I don't want to talk about this ever again and I just need to bury it somewhere deep. I was also sure about my decision and very relieved that I live in a country where I can choose the destiny of my life by myself. I felt so stupid and I was feeling so sorry of myself. I wanted just sleep and pretend that nothing was wrong, but everything was wrong and it needed to be fixed soon.

¿Cómo hizo el aborto?

This was the cheapest way to proceed (legally with professional help) and I thought it would be easily done. But in France you need to wait a week before the doctor can start the abortion, in case you change your mind. I thought that the medical way would be the easiest and less painful but I was really wrong. I took the first medicine and it didn't have any effect in my body. 48h later I took the second one and it hurt so much that I couldn't see or walk. I wanted to go home but I couldn't do anything than sit outside and wait for the pain to go away, but it didn't. I wanted to throw up because my legs and my whole upper body were in the most horrible pain that I have ever experienced. If I could choose now, I would do the surgery.

¿Cuál era su situación en ese momento?

I know it's a cliche to say this but it just wasn't for me. I fell in love with the wrong person at the wrong time. He doesn't even know about any of this, but every day I would want to tell him my story. I would want to make him feel bad about leaving me the worst time ever. But I don't. It doesn't matter anymore, I am strong enough to get trough this by myself.

¿La ilegalidad del aborto afectó sus sentimientos?

It is not illegal in my home country or in the country I am living in right now. I think all women should have the right to do this and make the decisions of their own bodies and lives.

¿Cómo reaccionaron otras personas a tu aborto?

I was and still am to scared to tell anyone. I only told a two people about my positive test and I knew immediately that I am going to end it as soon as possible. My closest was supporting my decision and helping me to get it ended.

lega/ilegal

Qué religión profesa?

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

dessa

fiz um aborto sozinha

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

laura

Mi experiencia

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

Sara

Siedziałam przed psychiatrą, opowiadając jej wydarzenia sprzed ostatnich…

Julia

Razem z moich chłopakiem znamy się niecały rok , jest ode mnie młodszy o 4 lata…

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

noha

y la verdad para mi fue un alivio, esto comenzó un el mismo dia que decidi…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Macabéia

Aborto 5 meses / Aborto 20 semanas

Beata

Informacja o ciąży przeraziła mnie...nie potrafiłam się z tym pogodzić, byłam…

mary cry

pior momento de minha vida

anna dea

aku masih berumur 20thun aku mempunyai pacar usia nya di bawah ku 1 tahun aku…