I had an abortion
1994 Francia (nacido/a en France)
¿Cuáles fueron sus sentimientos acerca de hacer el aborto (s)?
Glad, relieved, focused, back into my body, empowered, sharp
¿Cómo hizo el aborto?
I had 2 abortions. The first was surgery, I was underage, and thus accompanied by my mother (and boyfriend). The second was by RU486, I was 19 and by myself. Surgery in itself can be scary, but this was the mildest operation I ever had (I am however, allergic to morphine now). As for the induced miscarriage, ya feel it, but that's also a good thing, listening to your body - which is obviously what I'd failed to do before. You need some time off to be nice to yourself.
¿Cuál era su situación en ese momento?
I was 17 and 19 when I had my abortions. My life was spinning out of control in all possible ways (atrocious family relationships, feelings of abandonment, alienation, panic attacks, self-destructive boyfriends, poor hygiene and care of myself, school ditching...). I got pregnant the first time I had sex, and I knew it right away. As well as knowing right away I WOULD NOT HAVE THAT CHILD. Things snapped into focus as I finally took a hold of ME, and reclaimed my body - for a while. The second time... let's say I still hadn't fixed my life (and could not take contraception for health reasons, + am allergic to latex and very very fertile). I know what it's like to not be ready for a child. I could never screw up her/his life alongside mine so royally. Never, ever, ever. Many people have tried to convince me that I would eventually have a depression, that I was inhibiting my feelings. It's been 13 years now, and the only thing I feel when I think about my 2 abortions is joyous relief and gratefulness.
¿Afectó la ilegalidad de su aborto a sus sentimientos?
It was legal both times. I was relieved.
¿Cómo reaccionaron los demás ante su aborto?
I didn't ask for validation, as there was no doubt in my mind. My then boyfriend moaned about it the 2 years we stayed together. My friends asked if I needed anything. My mother (I had to tell her the 1st time since I was 17) remains absolutely mute about it, which is refreshing. A woman stopped me outside of Family Planning and asked if I was "going to kill (my) baby". I usually have a slow sense of repartee, but I slammed her against a wall and said I'd start with killing her. She went ashen and my boyfriend had to pry my fingers off her. This woman represents/ed everything that is wrong with the world.
Qué religión profesa?
I had an abortion in the US a few years ago. I think it is important for all of…
Może jestem bez serca ale niczego nie żałuję. ja chyba nie nadaję się na matkę…
I am pro-choice
It's your choice.
No eres la única. No estás sola. Transformalo en algo positivo para tu vida.
And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…
Oi, bom é tanta coisa pra falar ... mas vamos lá! Abortei em Março dia 17
No estaba lista para ser madre, no se si algún día lo estaré.
Fiz um aborto e senti vergonha de Deus, mas fiquei aliviada.
Fiz um aborto.
Y no existe arrepentimiento.
esta vez decido yo!
Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade
Yo aborté porque es mi derecho
Ser solidária com quem abortou e defender a descriminalização jamais me fez…
Tomé una desición
I had an abortion
Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.
Grávida aos 18.
Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
La mejor decisión