Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 هولندا

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

How did you do the abortion?

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

كيف كان رد فعل الآخرين على إجهاضك؟

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

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What is your religion?

lizbeth aparicio

I had an abortion yo quiero abortar porq no siempre se tiene calculadas las…

Bri

I knew I was pregnant as soon as I was around two weeks. I had never been…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Nadia

Le habia escrito una blanca cancion del amor entre una nube y un pez volador.

gise

esta vez decido yo!

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Nina

Fiz um aborto

Patricia Bronstein

I was married and had known since an early age that I did not want to be a…

Godherself on Instagram

I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

Emma

I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was…

Liz

Cuando supe que estaba embarazada yo tenía 2 meses separada de mi pareja con el…

Agata

Jestem już przeszło 3 miesiące po aborcji farmakologicznej wykonanej w 6 tc. W…

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Ilis

Aliviada y triste pero no arrepentida

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Regina Powell

I had an abortion and I'm about to have another.