Emma

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I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was desperately in love with the father, who was older than me. I knew we should be using a condom, I even said that to him the night I lost my virginity, but he still had sex with me without one.
He also had a fiancée. I thought he would leave her for me, I was stupid and believed every word he said.

I just knew I couldn’t have a baby, I was barely an adult myself and I was scared. I made up my mind I had to have an abortion, it was my only option.

After I had the procedure I felt relief. Then when I got back home the father rang me and told me it was over between us. It shattered me. He had a baby with his fiancée a year later.

Twenty years on and I still feel regret about my decision. I feel as though it may have been my only chance to have a child and the whole experience has really fucked me up.

Of course when I consider the situation I think I made the right choice but it doesn’t make the pain any less.

2000 أستراليا

The awful thing is your feelings can change as you get older. I never thought I would feel so sad about having an abortion when I was so convinced it was the right thing to do when I was young.

How did you do the abortion?

I was scared as hell and thought I may actually die. I realise now I must have been in severe shock. All I remember was walking down a dark corridor into a surgical room, then I remember lying down with my legs in stirrups, counting back from ten. Then I woke up and some nurse was checking a pad between my legs to see how bad the bleeding was. It is literally like a nightmare that happened to someone else.

What was your situation at this time?

I wanted to go to University

هل أثر الإجهاض غير القانوني على مشاعرك؟

No.

كيف كان رد فعل الآخرين على إجهاضك؟

My family was very supportive.

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

mela

Vivire por ti mi pequeño angel

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

violet

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Andrea

It's your choice.

Priscila

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Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Catalina

El Misotrol salvó mi vida

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

Luciana

Hace exactamente 1 año y dos meses. Arranque el 2017 con todo. Supe el día que…

Stormy-Hayden Skylar

I don't regret my abortion in the slightest.

Mariafe Fer

Mi buena experiencia con el Misoprostol en un pais donde es ilegal abortar…

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

Katy Nunes

Meu corpo: minhas regras. Eu decido se e quando quero ter filho.