I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could smell him making breakfast. I got up and took a hot shower so I could join him but I could already hear his foot steps as he comes in to join me. I kiss him and we are both happy. For the first time in my life, I believe I am happy and decide to make life some life decisions. I decide to quit my job to go take a big step in life and start looking for a career. I am unemployed and planning to look for a career and go back to school. We initially started off on the wrong foot and went to being a fling to something a little more meaningful. I fell in love with him and the life I could picture us having in the future. Unfortunately he was still going through a bad divorce and even though him and his ex had been separated for more than a year, he still had to comunicate with her because of their three year old daughter. One day I felt my stomach cramping more than usual. I had just switched birth control so I thought maybe it's just that time of month. I ended up getting sick and decided to get a pregnancy test at Planned parenthood, I decide to go by myself because I don't want anyone to know unless it is something I considered. The nurse then informs me it is positive. I have a rush of emotions flow through me, happiness, sadness, fear and anger at myself for not being as safe as if hoped. I then become nervous to tell him and told myself I have to. I drove up to his house and he was there with his ex. I thought to myself, I have never met her and it was late for her to be here. She left in a hurry. He then told me that things are delaying with their divorce. That she still wants to work things out and he seemed confused on who to choose. I told him I was pregnant and had been for 6 weeks. He told me we would think things over but I was stuck, I had given so much up to start a life with him and knowing he didn't stand on our side, I didn't want him in my life anymore. I said prayers for things to fall into place and I know God works in mysterious ways. It was hard for me to come up with the decision. I had no job, no spouse, no place of my own. I felt I made the best decision for the situation I was in. I am feeling very emotional at the moment but look forward to waiting for marriage to conceive a baby, until then I recieved the birth control implant.
2016 United States
What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?
How did you do the abortion?
My experience was good for the situation. I honestly wouldn't have made it through it if it wasn't for this kind nurse that helped me through the pain of the surgical procedure. I didn't take the sedation part of it, she held my hand as the cramping got worse and as she could see the emotions, she stayed by me.
What was your situation at this time?
Hoe het ander mense op u aborsie gereageer?
It was a sad situation, i didn't tell anyone else about it.
What is your religion?
la verdad nunca paso por mi mente que a mi me sucedería algo así, siempre pensé…
I have had two abortions
Mirar hacia adelante.
Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going…
Something that has carried with me ever since.
Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...
Perdoneme mi bebe, te amare siempre!
Há 5 anos atrás fiz um aborto,e hoje vejo claramente que foi a melhor escolha e…
Saya masih duduk di kelas 3 SMA saat melakukan aborsi. Saya sudah pacaran…
A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!
Pior dia da minha vida
Dwie kreski...Te dwie czerwone kreski na białym papierku były jak kubeł zimnej…
It was sad but necessary
Decidida, sin culpa ni arrepentimiento, soy fiel a mi misma.
I had an abortion
Esto marcó mi vida, pero agradezco a Dios por esta segunda oportunidad