Kyky

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Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

2015 United States

What were your feelings about doing the abortion/s?

How did you do the abortion?

My experience was like woahh I am a African American young lady who slept with some who does not have a job nor does he have a diploma. When I decided abortion was the only choice, I had to come up with $400+ because the clinic near me did not take my moms insurance and I did not want her to know. Even with support I felt so alone. I worked on weekends and stayed on top of my AP classes in order to afford my abortion. Imagine receiving xmas money that you had to save to get a abortion? Sucks a**. I am not a selfish person but to me in Gods eyes what I did was selfish and I cannot live that down but I always wish and pray he will forgive me. During the abortion it was so painful I wanted to cry and I bled for 3 weeks none stop and I actually heard the baby fetus go *dump* in the toilet. And I just thought "what if that was me with my mom" or "what if that could of been my successful unborn child"? But overall I had to think reasonable and think, I will not put my baby in an awkward situation where he/she couldn't ask for something for christmas mommy couldn't get. So whether you got prego by accident or by force through rape, incest, etc. SPEAK UP! IT IS YOUR BODY! Do not let the father or anybody else tell you what is wrong, if you're not ready then YOU ARE NOT READY! NOT THEM! Live for you, but next time be careful. I'm still learning and hopefully one day when I am ready my children will know about the decision I made in my bathroom that day.

What was your situation at this time?

A Scholar student with a full ride to college and with one parent with two jobs(mom) and another unemployed diabetic who goes blind in one eye every now and then(dad). My choices had pushed me to not go through with this pregnancy.

Hoe het ander mense op u aborsie gereageer?

A lot people who were close to me were relieved that I picked the right choice as a young lady because of college. But my parents and family will never know about my abortion. I am pretty sure they would be disappointed to know that I decided to have unprotected sex and at 17 about to be 18 in two months and graduate 6 months later trying to be someones mother. But my real friends were supportive and one was so supportive she even saw me as a fit mom but I knew the time was NEVER RIGHT AND THE DECISION WAS NO...

legal/illegal

What is your religion?

aileen

I have had two abortions

María

Aborté y no me arrepiento. I do not regret my abortion.

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Bia

E no começo me arrependi mas vi que seria a melhor opção, e escrevendo meu…

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

kathy

No me sentía lista

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

*De*

Fiz um aborto

Mariana

Esta es mi historia: Tengo 35 años y 3 hijos, dos nenas y un varón de 6, 3 y 1…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Natalia M

Yo aborté, y no me arrepiento.

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Maca

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