Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Lily
How old are you: Between 16 and 22

Country of birth: Australia

Year of abortion: 2009

Country of abortion: Australia

My family aren't religious, so they were fine about it - My mum had an abortion when she was younger too. My friends and family were overall mostly supportive of my decision.

Type of abortion: in a clinic or hospital with surgery

I had a surgical abortion, the pain was similar to that of period pain... It was very quick and convenient.

Reason for abortion: financial issues, my education, my age (too young or old), problems with my relationship, my personal reasons for not wanting a child, mental health reasons

There were a lot of reasons for my decision, on top of all that... It just didn't feel right. It wasn't the right time and that's OK.

Feelings about abortion: peaceful, resolved, numb, relieved, happy, as usual, sure

As this was my first abortion I felt a little nervous and maybe a bit scared. But it isn't as bad as everyone makes it out to be... It was A LOT easier than I expected and I felt a lot of relief afterward.

Women have the right to choose.

Religion no religion

Children: i have no children