AldaI had an abortion, and it was the best decision I could have made under those circumstances. I was not stable in any way at that time to bring a child into the world. I chose the best option for myself and my family. Since then, I am now in school completing my Masters', and working in abortion care. I feel more powerful from that experience.
How old are you: Between
27
and 33
Country of birth: Puerto Rico
Year of abortion:
2006
Country of abortion: United States
Everyone that knew was super supportive. Well, except my mom. But, she eventually came around.
Type of abortion: with medicines
I was in a lot of pain, but it was expected. It made a difference to have someone there with me. Afterwards, I felt relieved.
Reason for abortion: financial issues, my education, my age (too young or old), problems with my relationship
I have a very large, vivid picture of what I want to accomplish in life. I knew a child at that time would not have been a wise choice. I wasn't financially stable, and my relationship wasn't stable either. I still know that I made the right choice.
Feelings about abortion: disappointed, peaceful, irresponsible, resolved, relieved, confident, stupid, sure
I felt stupid to even be pregnant. I kept asking, "how did this happen?". Of course I knew physically how, but I was so confused as to why it happened to me! I was disappointed in myself, mostly because I knew my parents would be disappointed, so I was disappointed. My mom was upset, but she got over it, and still loves me very much. I sometimes feel like this brought up closer together. My father passed away around the time I had the abortion. The experience made me appreciate life, and made me realize how delicate it is. I know I made the right choice, and making that choice empowered me for the rest of my life.
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