AdeleI had an abortion
My mother and close friends were supportive and I had honest discussions with them about my circumstances. I have mixed feelings, as I'm 33 and would love to have a family, but my circumstances are not the best for having a baby at present. But, i'm happy that the decision i made was right for me. It helped not doing it alone. I told a close friend, and my mother who supported me through the process. This made a huge difference for me. I would absolutely recommend your service. Its discrete and reliable. My partner walked out on me when I got pregnant. He insisted that unwed fathers have no rights and he doesn't want any rights either. I was faced with being a single parent in a foreign country (I'm from South Africa). If I kept the baby my work permit would not be renewed by my company, and I would go back to South Africa with no job, nowhere to live and no means to support a baby. The child would have no chance to ever contact his/her father if he/she ever wanted to make contact. I could not look a child in the eyes and see the resentment because he has no dad. I couldnt face hurting a innocent child. He/she would have had no fighting chance to begin with. I wanted the baby so much, but I had to do what was best under the circumstances. I have mixed feelings about my abortion, BUT I know I made the right decision. I have mixed feelings about my abortion. BUT I made the right decision for me and the baby in the long run. To me the abortion was a selfless act. I protected a unborn baby from a life of uncertainty and wonder and from a dad who doesn't want him/her. Feeling sad sometimes and having mixed feelings is only natural. Having a abortion is a big deal and a hard decision to make. I think it would be unnatural if there were no mixed feelings inside me. |