anna o rilley

only my husband and i knew and we were relieved

relief and a greater understanding of those who might have to resort to this
despite their religious and family beliefs

As a grand mother of four and having had the "comfort of a husband who had had a vasectomy" pregnancy never entered our heads. However that tube can grow back and after 28 years of marriage and 17 after the op it did (or we may have just been lucky to avoid the situation) I could not deal with another baby considering our children ranged in age from 26 to 22and grandchildren were from 4to 6 months. Retirement should be 20 years away not choosing a college for our last

Considering our ages I know that we did the right thing, for ourselves, for our children and our grandchildren I have no regrets Ihave great faith that whatever God is up there will forgive me because I firmly believe that my pregnancy at my age was not viable without problems,not just regarding my health but that of the baby i was supposed to have.Sometimes you find answers to questions and i did I am so grateful for that help I did not feel alone and I thank all at this site for that .May you all read this and know that we are just all WOMEN ON THE WEB and support those less well off if you have a few spare pound (some women have no-oneexcept those on the www ) Iknow I Will